For all the queens out there 

To the woman at the park, looking at her phone, ignoring her children,I salute you. 

For not giving into the public perception that you should be switched on, 24 hours a day. 

For giving no fucks about what “constable mother’s group” thinks. 
To the woman with piles of dishes and washing who walks straight out the door for a coffee at her friends, 

I salute you. 

Being a good mum or wife or human does NOT mean spending eternity cleaning your house. If you leave them for long enough your friends will start doing them. Trust me. 

To the woman at the doctors surgery, waiting patiently to request some antidepressant, 

I salute you. 

Post natal depression is a rude little cunt. You are still coping, do not confuse depression for not coping, you’ve taken action, you looks like a coping queen to me.

Too often strength and weakness are confused, strength is asking for help. 

You are so strong.

So many women are going through the exact same thing, they just don’t talk about it.

To the woman who didn’t loose all of that baby weight, 

I salute you. 

A brand new 24 hour job that doesn’t pay and won’t end for around 20 years is NOT a good time to give up cake. Eat the cake, eat the whole fucking cake and fuck off anyone who dares to say anything. Your post baby body is not all the sudden free for public commentary. 

Lots of love, 
A fellow mum, who’s days are full of mammoth fails and micro victories, yet who’s heart still manages to repeatedly explode for the mini army of Love all day. 🌷

 Con

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8 thoughts on “For all the queens out there ”

  1. I just discovered you on FB and you speak my language…I have a potty mouth and let it fly when necessary, but more importantly I loved your message to moms struggling and barely hanging on, when trying to live up to whatever “society” says is acceptable! Well said and well met, I’m Paris and I look so forward to reading you! Best of luck to you ❤
    xx Paris

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  2. I too have recently discovered your writing. One of my besties sent me a link and said – read this , you will love her style. And I do! Thankyou so much for being so real babe.

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